Actress Jada Pinkett Smith, who is married to Will Smith, has revealed that she thinks that sometimes cheating can be good for relationship. Jada believes that infidelity isn’t necessarily a bad thing and it could actually built greater understanding between partners.
She posted some thoughts on this topic on her Facebook page. ”My observation has been that when most people cheat, they are trying to solve a problem. They are usually in some kind of emotional trouble or confusion that they believed the cheating would relieve,” she wrote.
”Know this, if someone has cheated on you who truly loves you, they have hurt themselves as much as they have hurt you. This makes for a great opportunity to deepen the relationship with thorough honesty, which creates deeper respect with some serious setting of boundaries. This is also when love gets real and true and illuminates what you are made of as a couple and as individuals. Situations like these could be the windows to a deeper commitment OR… to two separate paths on the way to look for new partners. Only the unique nature of your specific relationship can be the telling factor,” Jada added.