Even though Kate Hudson and Matthew Bellamy got engaged in April 2011, it doesn’t seem they will be walking down the aisle anytime soon.
Appearing on Live with Kelly & Michael on Tuesday, the actress said she was too busy to plan her wedding.
“No, I’m planning nothing right now,” she said. “I’m so busy, we’ve been so busy and it’s been great. I come from an unconventional family — they’re not married, my parents aren’t married.
”So there’s a part of me that goes, if I’m going to do it, I’m going to do it right. And I’m going to take the time to really plan it right . . . And it’s a lot. Planning a wedding is a lot! I mean, I did a movie about planning a wedding and that was a lot, let alone actually planning a wedding! So, no. Not anytime soon, no.”
Wedding is a great event in life of every woman. It takes a lot of time, really lots of time. Kate is already happy and has a kid and enjoys life. The wedding will take place; the couple just doesn’t have time for that yet. Well the life of an actor is very busy in fact. With so much work they forget to live their own life. This is rather sad, but it is their choice. I also recollect the comedy with Kate Hudson about wedding preparation and it was hilarious.
Well Kate already was married once, and it didn’t really work, so I can totally understand her when she says that she is not ready for the wedding yet. For some reason I have noticed that after the wedding people start acting differently towards each other, they stop caring if some of the words they say might wound the person they love or not, it is like, what the heck she is my wife already, so why not telling what I think and feel and let her realizing what is the best for us, that is not very nice actually, that is why there are so many marriages now which end after less than one year. So probably something like that has happened with Kate Hudson in her previous marriage, and it resulted in the fact that she doesn’t want to go through something like that anymore. If they are ultimately happy together like that, then why should they change or ruin everything they have with the ceremony they do not really believe in?
I think Kate Hudson is all postponing the wedding date she doesn’t really want to marry Matthew Bellamy, I mean if she would really love him than she would never wait even a day in order to become his wife, but the truth is she doesn’t really care. Maybe she is looking for some other better option who knows, after all she is a famous Hollywood actress who gets millions for each movie she is shoot in, while he is a simple musician, who is not even half famous as she is. That is a pity, as Kate Hudson is one of my favorite actresses, and I do wish her to be happy, in general I love all of her family, her mom and stepdad, they are so much fun, and by looking at those two people you realize the true meaning of the word “love” and “meant to be together”. I guess that type of love Kate is really looking for, but is ashamed to admit as she is afraid that something like this will never happen to her, but I am sure it will, as she is a good girl and deserves to be happy.
I love Kate Hudson, and I don’t care whether she is married or not, after all it is all her business only, it doesn’t affect her carrier or personal life the fact that she has a stamp in her documents stating that she is married. I like judging people according to their behavior and not some society’s clichés. Her mom is together with Kurt Russell for about thirty- forty years I guess, but they managed to stay together and never having any affairs on the side, though they were never legally married to each other. In a lot of movies I hear the phrase that marriage is killing love and relationship, and I realize that maybe it is true, people start feeling their selves “bonded” and that is not very comfortable so they start doing things that make their beloved person leaving them.