Covering the new issue of The Chicago Sun-Times’ Splash magazine, Sophia Bush talks about her previous relationships and openly admits she doesn’t always have the best judgment when it comes to men.
The Chicago PD star, who divorced Chad Michael Murray in 2005 after only five months of marriage, says she made some wrong choices but also learned from them.
”I’ve dated a couple of the wrong guys, but I’ve also had great love in my life. I think every woman on Earth has dated the wrong guy at some point,” the 31-year-old actress said.
However, Sophia is now absolutely sure about who she is and what she wants.
She says: ”At the end of the day, I’m an open book. If I were looking at myself objectively, I’d say I’m a strong person and that can translate into a strong personality. I’ll give all the space in the world to fairness, but I don’t have any room for intolerance.”
Well, we all have dated wrong people at some time of our lives. Well, I am talking about the majority. Only lucky ones were married their first love and managed to keep their marriage for a life time. In the present times this is almost impossible, a rare catch. Anyways, despite our choices, we get great lessons and get new experiences. Sophia has been in love and loved truly and this what is worthy to live for.
Wow Sophia I perfectly understand what you mean, I am same as you are, I also have dated the wrong man, and it affected a lot my life, actually I am dating with wrong for me guys all the time, my mom says that I am a magnet for wrong men, if there is a wrong man somewhere nearby than I would totally find him and start a relationship with him. Well what can I say that is life, we all are doing mistakes but the most important thing is that we all learn a lesson from it. I don’t know where my knight is in the shining armor or Sophia’s but there is definitely something wrong with those guys as they are running late.
Who are we to judge Sophia for her not long lasting marriage, she thought that he was the One when she was marrying that guy, I am sure of it. We all are doing mistakes, even in the Bible was mentioned “that the person who never sinned should throw a stone into that woman who was considered guilty for following her desires”, and no one could do it, as we all sin. I would like to support Sophia as I am sure that though she is smiling it is difficult for her, as it is always difficult to let go of the dreams and aspirations that we create while being with a special person for us.
I guess Sophia has learned her lesson and next time before getting marries she will think more carefully whether it is the right person for her or not. But from the other side who am I to judge her, I do mistakes as well, and now I am single due to the fact that I always choose the wrong man for myself, I want a happy and simple life, but choose the “bad boy” type of men for myself, so no wonder the result. Same with Sophia, my advice is to realize what life do you want for yourself, as soon as you will imagine yourself the entire picture of the future, you will understand what type of man you really need.